hóu mén shēn sì hǎi
<p>◎ <strong>侯门深似海</strong> <span class="pinyin">hóumén shēn sì hǎi</span></p>
<p><span class="green">[(of a rich man's home) be inaccessible to the common man]</span> 指显贵人家深宅大院,门禁森严,一般人难以出入。比喻旧日的好友因地位的悬殊而疏远隔绝</p>
<p><span class="pinkred">“侯门似海”,我是个什么东西儿!他家人又不认得我,去了也是白跑。——<span class="bold">《红楼梦》</span></span></p>